This is an old term I've heard and used to use myself when I felt it was time to read someone for something they had said or done to make me angry. I would curse them out and then blame them for making me have to go there. When I started living the next stage of my life at a different level I came upon a quote by author Dr. Laura Schlessinger that made me realize that I have no one to blame but myself for the way I respond in situations like that. Here it is:
"The people and circumstances around me do not make me the way I am, they reveal who I am"
"For whatever is in your heart determines what you say."
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